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Guided Meditation C.D.s
Now available in Paperback
Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
How to Meditate, what is a healing meditation like
Weight Loss and  Emotional eating
Fear of abandonment
Stress reduction
Vital Energy oxygen therapy and breathing
Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
what is love
Sex - What the women are saying now.
psychic Cords
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
bipolar
Inspirational quotes
Im right you're wrong
Letter to My son
Songs to make your heart sing
Contact Sonya Green
Sonya Green new articles
Reinventing myself personal growth program
Guided Meditation C.D.s
Now available in Paperback
Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
How to Meditate, what is a healing meditation like
Weight Loss and  Emotional eating
Fear of abandonment
Stress reduction
Vital Energy oxygen therapy and breathing
Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
what is love
Sex - What the women are saying now.
psychic Cords
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
bipolar
Inspirational quotes
Im right you're wrong
Letter to My son
Songs to make your heart sing
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Guided Meditation C.D.s
Now available in Paperback
Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
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Weight Loss and  Emotional eating
Fear of abandonment
Stress reduction
Vital Energy oxygen therapy and breathing
Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
White Light and healing energies
Spitituality without religeon
Happiness
what is love
Sex - What the women are saying now.
psychic Cords
Money Prosperity Wealth
Parents. Who are these aliens?
Incest
Living in the shadows
Affirmations and Mind Power
Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
bipolar
Inspirational quotes
Im right you're wrong
Letter to My son
Songs to make your heart sing
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Reinventing myself personal growth program
Guided Meditation C.D.s
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Creative Visualization guided meditation techniques
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Stress reduction
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Soul Mates and self love
arthritis chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia
Self Esteem
heartbreak
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psychic Cords
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Incest
Living in the shadows
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Words as Medicine
Absent Healing and Chakra Balance
Better Questions Better Solutions
Are we thinking our own thoughts?
Beauty Myth
bipolar
Inspirational quotes
Im right you're wrong
Letter to My son
Songs to make your heart sing
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One of the most interesting aspects of Creative Visualization is the
seemingly magical or mystical nature of events. Some think of it as
serendipity or coincidence and others just dismiss it all as superstition or
simply shrug it off as just one of those quirky things.

I have so many coincidences happening around me and to me that I can’t
help but pay attention. To me, a coincidence is a sign post which says
‘Pay Attention’. Even if it turns out that these coincidences are nothing
more than similar random events, it wouldn’t matter, as I have been
guided into the most fortunate circumstances by paying attention to them.

People who know me well or spend a good amount of time with me, often
joke that I must be a witch or they step back and look quizzically at me
and make statements like “What did you just do?” or “That’s strange!”

I could list thousands of events without giving it much thought, and I’m
finding that the more I follow through, the more things become revealed,
and the more frequent these coincidences occur. Of course, many are
within the realm of probability and some can be explained as just good
luck, but when luck and probability become a daily reality, and that luck is
phenomenal, it really does pique your curiosity.

Lately, I have become very tuned into informational serendipity. I’m now
referring to it as my cosmic telephone; it’s like having the Internet inside
my head. Sometimes, I just make a statement to myself about information
I need, and it seems to me, that the question circles the globe and then
comes back with the answer. Often, someone just starts talking and
without any prompting from me at all, they just magically tell me what I
needed to know or give me a direction to where to find the information.
Many times, it comes up on the television or in a magazine.

I have never thought of myself as a teacher or a writer and even now, I
sometimes look at what I’m doing and wonder how I ended up here. As
with many things in life, it is easy to talk the talk, but when it comes time
to do the walk, we quickly run out of puff.

Two of my main character faults are that: I don’t always practice what I
preach and I usually think that near enough is good enough.

Actually, I just thought of another fault I have and it’s a big one. I ask for
guidance, wisdom, intuition and assistance in attuning myself to my
highest purpose and possibilities, and then argue with and resist those
instructions when they are revealed, - if it sounds hard.

Well, I guess, ‘The Source’ has got my number now and knows how to
manipulate me. It starts out as an idea that won’t get out of my head.
Then, I begin to feel restless and discontent. If I still resist, it becomes an
obsession and if I continue to struggle, then my distractions are taken
away. By this, I mean, that whatever way I wanted to go simply gets
closed down on me, until I do what I was meant to do.

When I decided to produce my meditation CD, I knew I had to do it, I was
sure I was being guided to do it and I knew I had to do it well. I expected it
to be easy as I had made many home-made meditation tapes years
earlier when I had run courses. They only took a few hours to write and
record so I thought having them done professionally would be a snap.

I won’t go into all the frustration and hassles of it, but it took up every
weekend for more than a year and you would have laughed if you had
seen me towards the end. The irony of a relaxation product causing me
so much stress and aggravation was not lost on the people around me -
not that many were still game enough to be around me. I just couldn’t
understand why it had to be so hard if it was meant to be. I expected that
if I was being ‘divinely led’ to do this, then I would be blessed with ease,
and good fortune.

Sitting here today, I can see perfectly, why it was the way it was. I won’t
go into the many, many reasons, but the main one is that it wasn’t about
the CD at all. I find this happens so often now that I can’t believe I had
never noticed it before. I can see that so many times in my life, when I
thought I was doing something or at least that I was in control of
something, I have looked back and seen that it was all about something
completely different. This is particularly noticeable in reflecting on bad
times. I seem to be constantly confronted with the reality of: Bad things
happen for good reasons.

How easy my life could be if I would just trust that this is the case at the
beginning, rather than struggling and stressing through-out, only to have
it revealed in hindsight.

As part of the CD marketing strategy, I decided to write a few articles on
explaining things like meditation, visualization and affirmation. Having a
background in weight loss, I also included an article on that and decided
to re edit a previous CD I had made some years before. A bit later, I
thought I’d write about my experience with arthritis. And then, people
started writing asking me who I was and wanting more information about
the things I had written about.

That was all I had intended to do - whack up a website, sell some CDs,
make the people happy and make a few dollars. If only…

It became very obvious that I was not about to make my fortune from
selling CDs on the Internet. But, beautiful, warm and inspirational people
started writing the most amazing stories, sharing private secrets and
asking my opinion on things. They really got me thinking about a lot of
things I had wondered about myself. They asked questions that I found I
could answer or at least give some thought to. And then - the
coincidences came. The letters seemed to come in blocks of similarities.
The first was on abandonment; my niece originally contacted me, even
though I had not had contact with her since she was a baby, in fact I think
I only ever saw her once or twice. She really made me stop and think
about the pain of not having a father and not knowing who he was or
even what kind of a man he was. The same week a few men I hadn’t seen
in years mentioned they were reconnecting with children that they had
not had an opportunity to know. And then the email's started, all these
people started writing about abandonment issues.

My head just wouldn’t let it go, I kept having conversations playing
through my mind until I decided the only thing to do was to write it down. I
had done this as a matter of habit; if something nags at me, I write it down
as a way of getting it out of my brain and also I find that I write logically
whereas I think in a scattered way.

I’m only a two-finger typist and when I write I just string ideas together and
try and keep it relevant and interesting. I stop, I think, I write some more
and then stop and think some more.

The abandonment article was something to be seen; I had very little idea
of what was being written and my fingers moved so fast that I thought I
was possessed. I wrote without thinking for about five hours - without a
break. When I had it finished, I was exhausted and I read it for the first
time; as I had no idea that I knew what I knew.

The article upset me as I could really feel what it was like to be
abandoned like that. It was not my story, so it surprised me that I felt so
emotional for the people I was writing about.

Since then, the same energy has worked through the incest article, the
bipolar article and to some degree most of the others. These days I trust
the process and I have given up the idea that
I write. I accept that articles
exist and when they are ready they will come and use me.
I guess that make me ‘A Tool’

I remember hearing a Sculptor say that he didn’t make statues, they exist
inside a lump of clay, and his job is just to free up the excess to reveal
what’s already there. Musicians often comment that the music seems to
pour down through the top of their head and flow through their
instruments.

I wonder how many people are not giving themselves an opportunity to
express themselves, simply because they haven’t tried something. That
is, not paid attention to their sign-posts. Coincidences, discontentment,
inner yearnings, bad luck and accidents; who knows where these sign-
posts may direct you? Isn’t it worth paying a little attention or trusting a
little more?

I readily admit that I am not the greatest writer; technically I’m not even an
average writer, and certainly many will not relate at all to what I have to
say; but that is not the point. I need to write for me, it’s my medium of self-
expression and it’s only relevant to those people who are guided to read
it and get something out of it.

Strong instincts or intuition are forms of communication with inner
wisdom. Coincidences or serendipity are almost always signs to pay
attention. Ask, trust and explore, the possibilities may be far greater than
you ever imagined.


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